Christian Wedding Cds
question about a wedding?
ok My roommate and I were invited to this wedding in the yard today. Actually at my grandmother’s house and my uncle’s we don’t feel comfortable going because they are high class people and we are not. Although we would give you the shirt of our backs. Anyway I feel really bad not going but why should we go and feel like we are the wrong piece to the puzzle. How can we feel better about not going. I told my grandmother we had the bug. But I feel guilty lying. My grandmother invited us so we would not feel left out. I know this is the reason. I asked my uncle if he could put $10 on his credit card last week and I would give it to him and he didn’t even reply. It was for christian cd’s that was $20 if I didn’t have the credit card. Should we feel bad not to go. Should I of told the truth? How do we not feel depressed today?
The bigger question is how do you feel about the bride and the groom? Do you want to share their day?
If these people are important to you, then go. It’s their day and you were invited because they want you to share.
High class doesn’t come from money. I have known a lot of rich people (and I mean REALLY rich) who had no class at all! And I have met dirt poor people who had so much class and good manners that they fit in anywhere.
Class comes from inside. Smile. Be polite. Ask people about themselves (they will think you’re a wonderful person for asking!). Listen.
If you can’t bring yourselft to put yourself out there, you can go and sit quietly…you are there for the bride and groom.
Now, if you don’t like the bride or groom, that’s a different matter. Guilt shouldn’t push you into doing something that’s uncomfortable (don’t confuse this with the money thing). If this is the case, then be politely honest to your host/hostess and simply say, “I’m sorry, but I don’t think we’ll be able to attend.” No other reason is necessary (and, by the way, the more excuses you make, the worse it will get…people know that the more you talk, the more chance you’re making things up).
If you go, what about the gift? If you are in school or just getting started, the bride and groom know this. They won’t be expecting a major gift from you. If they really are nice people (and, of course, isn’t this why you’re going in the first place?), they’ll be more impressed with your “presence” than your “presents”.
Do something personal. Give them “gift certificates” for washing their cars, helping with projects around the house, babysitting (if applicable), homecooked meals, etc. You can always make a mix CD of their favorite songs. That kind of effort shows that you put some thought into a gift and didn’t do the “cash in the envelope” thing.
Good luck. You’ve got more class than you know!
Romantic Amazing Grace – Christian Wedding Music by Miranda Wong
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5 Piece Dinnerware Place Setting of TABRIZ pattern by CHRISTIAN DIOR Manufacturer Status: Discontinued in 1999 Pattern: TABRIZ by CHRISTIAN DIOR CHINA Description: TAN LEAVES & FLOWERS, RUST, BLUE & GREEN These typically resale for over $350 per box; easily a $2400 value |
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Come Away $9.75 CD Come Away w/DVD… |
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The Canadian Tenors $9.94 All products are BRAND NEW and factory sealed. Fast shipping and 100% Satisfaction Guaranteed…. |
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Hundred More Years $3.99 CD Hundred More Years… |
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Christy – The Complete Series $17.44 Based on the best-selling Catherine Marshall novel, this warm and winning family drama series starred Kellie Martin as Christy Huddleston, a young woman who moves to a rural Tennessee town in 1912 to teach school and finds her life forever changed by the residents. The cast includes Randall Batinkoff, Tyne Daly, Tess Harper. Standard; Soundtracks: English Dolby Digital stereo; Spanish Dolby Digit… |
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Very Bad Things $3.84 What was supposed to be a simple Las Vegas bachelor party snowballs into a gruesome comedy of errors when a call girl is accidentally killed and the revelers try to cover up the death. Christian Slater, Jon Favreau, Cameron Diaz, and Daniel Stern head up the darkly funny goings-on. 100 min. Standard and Widescreen (Enhanced); Soundtracks: English Dolby Digital 5.1, Dolby Digital stereo, French Dol… |
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License to Wed $1.50 For a newly engaged couple (Mandy Moore and John Krasinski), the usual problems that crop up while planning a wedding are the least of their worries. First, they’ll have to pass muster with Moore’s family’s reverend (Robin Williams), who bugs their apartment, insists they abstain from sex, and makes them care for robotic infants as part of his tried and true marriage prep course. Outrageous comedy… |
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Fools Rush In (Weddings by Bella, Book 1) $6.99 Bella Rossi may be nearing thirty, but her life is just starting to get interesting. When her Italian-turned-Texan parents hand over the family wedding planning business, Bella is determined not to let them down. She quickly books a “Boot Scoot’n” wedding that would make any Texan proud. There’s only one catch–she’s a country music numbskull because her family only listens to Frank Sinatra and De… |
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Loving (Bailey Flanigan Series) $17.99 The answers Bailey Flanigan once longed and prayed for are finally becoming clear. In Loving, the fourth and final book in the Bailey Flanigan Series by New York Times bestselling author Karen Kingsbury, Bailey is planning a wedding and making decisions that will shape her future. Bailey enjoys the beginning of her new career and time spent with Brandon while Cody faithfully coaches his team on an… |
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The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God $12.25 There has never been a marriage book like THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE. Based on the acclaimed sermon series by New York Times bestselling author Timothy Keller, this book shows everyone-Christians, skeptics, singles, long-time married couples, and those about to be engaged-the vision of what marriage should be according to the Bible.Modern culture would make you believe that everyone has a soul-mate;… |